Nah, just been there, done that. I still lose sight of controlling myself and my R goals every now and then, but I am also very aware that if I don't keep myself composed and behave like a rational adult, I'm likely to fail in achieving my ultimate goal - a happier, healthier ME in addition to a happier, healthier M with my H.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell