My h and I have been divorced for a month now and it sucks to say the least. I pushed this divorce and I now know it was the worst mistake I made. My H now wants his space and time to figure out what makes him happy. I am trying but it gets difficult sometimes. We still communicate and remain friends at the moment. I do not know how to be friends with someone you were married to for 10 years. I Hope that by using hints in DR I will be able to rekindle this relationship. He is the love of my life and unfortuantely we had to hit the bottome to realize that
Mz33,
If you go back and read my posts, you will see I find DBing as a "suggested" course of action. What I am going to personally suggest applies to your sitch because you left.....
1. Tell your H you made a huge mistake in filing for a D.
2. Tell him exactly how you feel about him.
3. Ask him what you can do to make amends.
4. Tell him how you are going to prevent this in the future.
5. Figure out what you need to do to work on yourself. I would strongly suggest counseling. Tell him your plan of action.
6. Be patient with him.
I personally would NOT sit back... He NEEDS to know EXACTLY how you feel without feeling pressure... I think loving reassurance without pressure is what he needs now...
Take Care,
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
