I think praying for someone's demise is I don't know...counter productive.
Unless your wife has taffy for brains she knows what it does to you. It is a button. If you don't react eventually she will stop, hopefully.
Let you in on a little secret?
You don't HAVE to forgive this guy, now or later. What you HAVE to do is stop reacting like someone stuck a cattle prod in your nethers when his name is mentioned.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
