Refuse To Lose, Part VII

[Dom R]

I'm hoping to be able to do this and still pull and effective 180. Right now, I'm not really sure what an effective 180 would be. I'm pretty confused.
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Maybe you need to stop trying to figure out "what would be an effective change", and instead, go with "what would be a POSITIVE change" ?

Change yourself for the better.
Then, reguardless of your wife's reaction or lack thereof, you can feel good about the change .