I am so sorry to hear this. Is he really leaving, or just threatening?
I know that you of all people know this, but....
If you say anything, it should probably be along the lines of, "I'm so sorry you feel this way. I would like you to stay, but I understand if you need to go for now."
Stay still, stay calm. God is holding you in His hand.
My prayers are with you.
Me:40, xH:41 M:19 T:21 D14, S10, D6 IDLYA bomb:12/22/06 OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06 H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07 D papers served 6/07 D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(