Kat, I know what you mean about being in the right frame of mind. And I like the attitude that Michele takes in her books, kind of makes me feel more empowered and in control and calm. I like myself a lot better than I did last year when I was so weak and independent and depressed!!!
Sounds like you and H are doing some good communicating which is great! I emailed H re: some financial stuff that he needed and told him just briefly that I and D14 are sick (we just have colds though) and I took D8 to a fun kid's afternoon they have at our new church w/ all kids her age. I was surprised when he actually emailed back he hopes I feel better! It always surprises me when he is nice to me(b/c it is rare)!
