I think we are in a rut

[MichelleLT]

Nope, you don't. It's his problem. He will just have to use his next paychecks for the credit cards and such.

You should take all the time you need to be in the place where you can have that conversation.

As for the NC, he is calling you, whether regularly or with excuses, he IS contacting you. I know it's hard, but when he was not living close to you, you managed. If it helps you to keep busy and work out, then do it.


(((Kris))) Hang in there, you are doing fine.