What's the sitch with you and SAM? How are things "not working out"?
IMHO you want to stay away from this former love...how would this be different from what SAM did to you if you got involved? Would you not owe her (or at least yourself) the dignity of breaking it off with her before pursuing any other R's?
If you're not prepared to do end it, WITHOUT knowing if there's any chance with your former love, then think twice...three times...MORE.00
Remember...when confused DO NOTHING.
What is it about this former love that feels so attractive right now? What is missing from your M?
