I think the Myers Briggs Personality Test is a better bet along this line. I do not think it is gender specific.
My wife is my love. I hold two other women in high regard and that is from being 37 years old and the paths I have walked. Love, yes, but not what I have for my wife. I am in contact with neither. Neither is my first wife.
I think it is more the person, not the gender.
The commonalities here, amoung the LBSers... we are the care givers, the providers, the worriers, the selfless. I think we hold onto the idea of loving 'one' person a bit tighter than others.
Maybe something to this...
I am an (E/I) NFP, The last time I checked...heh more like ENFP now.
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