Stronger - but still confused

[Snow White]

some guidance please on what to respond when directly asked why I am not answering, I mean I know what I want to say.

I want to say, you made a choice, you left, you chose to continue talking to her which caused us to go down a path where being around each other was unbearable. You wanted to leave to see if you would miss me, so do it.

But that is not helping me is it? Is there a better way or DB suggested way of dealing with this. I just got another text saying you must be doing great since you haven't responded in 3 hours to me asking how you are doing.