We can work it out (part 3)

[Rob1231]

Hi SS,

My good friend SD asked me to stop by your thread a while ago, I finally had the chance. I've skimmed over some of your previous thread, and wanted to comment on your post.

I chose "We can work it out" as my title because I am learning this great Beatles tune during my guitar lessons and the words really seem to speak to me.

I like it! As a fellow "Name My Threads After Songs" person, I can relate - and I'm glad your choice demonstrates both hope and determination.

I realize that I have never posted the full story. I just jumped in head first into what the issue was with the OW and went from there. Here is the whole story....

Now, I'm afraid that I have to "call you on this one." What you have done here is posted "the whole story of H".

How about another post which could be called "the whole story of Starshyne"? I firmly believe DBing is about saving yourself first and foremost. No matter what else happens, you CAN do this - be happy, strong, and confident - regardless of what happens with your H and your M.

Saving your marriage comes second - and can only happen in those fortunate sitches where the WAS is eventually willing to let it happen. Time and patience will tell....

In the meantime, let's see a post all about you. What are you doing to GAL? What are you doing to build yourself up, and exude that PMA that makes you the most attractive, happy person around?