The main thing for him is dealing with the guilt of what he did to us and of course the guilt he feels because he had to hurt OW by coming back to me/us.
In time he will realize that she really wasn't a very nice person but that is not something I dwell on or think about.
This is probably the toughest time for the MLCer when they return home.
The last time he came home he was only here for about three weeks and of course the circumstances were much different.
He is going on week six of being home. Their heads just keep spinning because a part of them wants to do what is right while the other part says to do the opposite.
It is just part of the process.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
