Well it looks like I was right about the attempted contact. It was clearly not meant to be a good interaction either so I'm really glad I didn't answer the phone. Ny birthday was c**py enough as it was.

I just got home and their is a letter from my L. She has forwarded a letter from Hs L stating that if they have not heard from us by the end of the week they are going to serve notice direct to me for D on grounds of MY unreasonable behaviour. H had obviously hoped I would receive it yesterday. B**s**rd
So now I will have to ring her tomorrow. I'm really torn, I don't know whether to just give in and let him have the D or fight it like I said I would originally. Guess that's another sleepless night tonight.

He hasn't responded to the email i sent him about D15 so I assume he is not coming. Good to know he cares about his children I expect he will be expecting me to berate him. Think again buster.

I also suspect he is hoping that I won't go to D17s birthday party at the weekend. If he wants to saty away that's fine but there is no way I am going to miss my daughter's 18th birthday party.

Last edited by ACJ; 04/15/08 05:46 PM.

Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15