Ok I need some advice on what to respond to or not. I do not want to start a fight I just don't want to be eagerly waiting for him to contact me.
This morning a half an hour after I got to work I rec'd a text from H saying be careful and drive slow you left your license at home(he must be home to a) pack his things, b)he has to get D off the bus - but not till 3:30, c) probably feels weird at his friend's house after he has left for work. I figure this is just to keep in touch since I would have been driving 45 minutes before I rec'd the text. I did not respond.
At lunch I rec'd one asking if his pay had gone in the account and how much. I responded just the number. About a half hour later he asked "did you pay me" I did respond to this as I was confused - for what? "so I can eat" Normally on my pay day - tomorrow - I transfer money into an account he has access to. I guess this is what he was referring to. I didn;t respond but transferred the $, he will just have to live another 15 days on this instead of 14. Because I didn;t respond I rec'd another stating don't get bent out of shape. Responded $ in.
Now I have rec'd one asking "How are you doing?" Do I just ignore these? Do I ask him not to contact me, like I said my desire is not to start a fight but it is to let him know what he is missing and not be so available.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009