I'm really sorry to hear what you're going through, it's tougher than tough.

Have you gone to Al-Alon? If not, I highly suggest it for you and Alateen for your kids.

Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.