Hi guys...just thought I'd let you know I'd been checking up...thanks so much for all your support. We definitely have great ups & downs, as individuals and as a couple, but I do believe that in 2 or 10 years (as you put it, Shiny), well, even NOW sometimes we look at each other and realize that a lot of couples wouldn't have gotten through this.

Well, when I say that, it makes me feel very guilty and scared that SBH will decide not to stay. But I do trust him and I know he loves me and I know I love him, so I also know we will get past this!

Be well, all!

SBH-SAM