Often, we notice everything, I don't think our spouses our thinking like we are looking.
That is SO well put, and is exactly the truth. This is #1 or #2 on OUR priority list, and about #10 on theirs. So, naturally we are paying a lot more attention.
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
