There are some on this board who have posted a long time ago that the MLC will reconnect with their children before they try to reconnect with you.
I have found that to be true, with my wife.
HOWEVER, to not think any reconnection is right around the corner, it won't be tomorrow, or soon, it does seem (to me) that this is part of the process.
Maybe BND or others can affirm this for you.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 04/15/0804:58 PM.
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