Joie,
You've mentioned many positives for your situation. It sounds like there is a solid foundation for your M.

Tell us your concern about your H's drinking pattern.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching