exactly, we learn to notice everything. We tend to at least at points during all this "record" in our minds whatever interaction, conversation, etc in extreme detail...at some point, at least for me the recorder is semi-broke. As an example, I had a great visit picking-up 5D the other day and forgot what I said when I had hand on column. I just remember how confident I was at the moment. Doesn't change the value of it. Maybe, that's some sort of detaching. I don't know. I do know I feel great, positive, and great deal of confidence.
Having said all that, I think what we should focus on is every interaction being positive, friendly, enjoyable, etc...and notice distinctly different behaviors, things, what is working, etc... Not every speck of every interaction/conversation...
like the comment I told someone this morning...my W is getting more and more friendly each conversation, visit, etc. The cumulative effect...that's what I want to focus on. Not the "my house" thing.
