Understood, gentlemen. I have never threatened a D, and have always told her that if she wants a D, then it will have to be her to do it as I will not go against what I believe is Gods wishes. The last couple of times that she threw out the D word, I calmly informed her that I will fight for custody of the girls. I also told her that that is not what I want to do, but I will protect us from her bad decisions. Our last discussion, she threw out that she will start the process and the part that I have already talked to an attorney just came out and nothing more was said after that.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."