Why Can't I DB the right way??

[Sugar and Spice]

W2M, everyone has moments where they can't always DB perfectly. I am the poster child for not doing it right, but if you fall, then pick yourself up, dust yourself off and try again.

If you think that meds might help, then talk to your Dr. Do things for you, and try not to focus so much on him. You can ONLY control yourself. When you lose sight of you, then the battle is just that much harder. You can do this. Have faith in yourself.

I am living your worst nightmare, the OW in my sitch is pregnant and I'm not sure what is going to happen, but I'm learning patience and self control and figuring out the things about myself I like and don't like and things that I am willing to tolerate and not. I always said that if I ever found out my H was cheating that I would just be done. I now know that when faced with a situation, that is easier said than done. I don't know what the future will hold, but I do know that whatever happens I will be ok and that the changes I have made and am making may be born of a bad situation, but will only benefit me in the end, no matter what.

You are going to be ok too and you can do this. Decide what it is you want, and make it happen for yourself. You are worth it and so are your DD's.