Ahhh, SBH, isn't it crummy when you're trying to be positive and move forward and those reminders keep popping up? Mine have all been minor, not big things like lawsuits but just little things like having dinner with H's colleagues in a business trip, only to realize later that H introduced OW to one of them when he started his affair - and here I am at dinner oblivious to that fact. I really hate that part - being the oblivious unknowing spouse.
But you know what? A good nights sleep fixes a lot of things. And you just have to focus on the positives.You can't change the past. Put your attention and focus on the things you want to grow.
