....Although it seems we have to have contact once every week since he left for whatever reason...
I bought a new mattress because I'm now starting to make this house my own.
The kids are still here and last week I called H to tell him to quit puting a gilt trip in the kids about going to visit him.
He says he has not had them over for dinner because he is doing drywall etc. I don't think that would have stopped me but whatever....
He now tells the kids to let me know what he has taken and will bring it back.
Which brings me to the questions I have......
Yesterday he came in while I was at work and although it makes me uncomfortable he still owns 50%.
He called me at work and told me what he cam to take he has up to this point ony told the kids to tell me,whay do you think he is calling me now?
He asked why I got a new mattress and I told him that we made love on this one and it hurt too much to sleep on it now. He was very very quiet for abot 30 seconds.Why would this bother him?
He offered his help if ever I need it.
He also asked how everything was going with work and the kids. I told him good realy good.
Actually much more peacful around since he is not in the house,didn't tell him that though.
I also asked him that when he gets the financials to please just let it move on as My lawyer has all the proof and I want this to just move. He started to raise his voice and said that he was going to see his lawyer tommorrow.
I know that he is going to be mad at what he sees because after all it's about the money he will have to dish out.
Is the guilt getting to him and he feels he has to offer his help?
I'm so sick and tired of it being all about him.
He still is very angry and there is no way that I see any kind of improvement.
I don't like him right now and I want him to let me go.
Should I tell him this?
By not settling he has control of my life because I'm in the house and although he pays the bills,I have to pay everything else.
"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"
