No, not a waste. That's exactly how I should be thinking. We, those working on saving our marriages, tend to put everything under a microscope. Life shouldn't be lived like that, right?
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09