I am really thinking about having the big R talk with H. It seems things between us lately have been strictly business. Our conversations lately have been short, cold, and to the point. Although, he did call me a little over a week ago just to see how I was doing. He sounded kind of sad, and nervous because he was calling for "no reason".
I feel like he is waiting on me to make a move. During our marriage, if I ever got upset or mad at him about something he would wait for me to come to him. Heaven forbid he apologize or come to me. He would always say that I was the one that was mad so he was giving me space and I would let him know when I was no longer mad. Maybe that is because that is the way HE would rather deal with it when he is upset about something.
Maybe he feels like the day he brought me lunch (the last time I saw him...2 and 1/2 weeks ago) was a peace offering of some sort. Then he did call that night just to talk and then he texted me to ask how the weekend went with his parents. He has been making some sort of effort to keep in contact...allbeit small.
Right now I am just struggling with giving it more time or getting it over with. He said before he needed to have a job and steady paycheck before he could think about us. Well, he has done that. Do I give him more time or move forward with this talk?
