I think you should try the "Stop Sign" method. When your mind starts going to places that just kill you, visualize a stop sign. Or do the rubber band trick, which I do. I just snap that rubber band when I want to do something that's not good or when I think things that aren't good either.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.