Well D15 continues to not speak to her dad...she is actually getting angrier....son had a baseball game last night and he is a coach, so H didn't speak to me during the game and then after the game I just went to the car, waited for son, and left to go home...I didn't speak to him either....
After I got home I made son something to eat and H came over to bring dog food......stayed about 15 minutes....he has been over for the past 3 days just to visit with kids...or else OW is busy with her kids.....who knows...he has too many lives for me to keep up with..
Anyway, this AM D15 asked why H was there last night...that she doesn't want to see him or talk to him...would rather he just pick up son in his car not come in and drop him off...I told her her dad is starting to feel the effects of his girls not wanting to talk to him....at least that is why I think he is coming over...he tells her goodbye but she is just over him right now..I told him, it is going to take a while because he really hurt us..she feels as though he stole 8 years of her life....
My job today is to find her a counselor.....ASAP....
So, do you think I'm right about him starting to miss his kids? I hope he is starting to really think about what he has done...it's like he has totally detached from reality....
Maybe its wishful thinking, IDK...
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity