That's great advice and something I struggle with. For instance, he spoke with the kids this morning, as D6 got off she asked, "Do you want to speak with Mom?" and then she hung up the phone telling me Dad had to get to work, he said hi and he'd call me later. Of course, my ego was hurt because it would have taken him 10 seconds to tell me that in person. But then I just turn on the computer and there's a short email from him just telling me the motorcycle ride was a cold one this morning and a couple of other things. THAT'S what I should be focused on. Thanks MM.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.