My story

[hopeful4her]

ROP, I believe that you have every right to be in your own home. You also have every right to be with your children. When there is a seperation, they are going to hurt either way. Why are they better off with her? I know that this issue has troubled me to no end. I now have full faith in myself and the in the fact that the should and will end up with me if she pushes for seperation or divorce. I have stated this as fact to her in our last discussion (thats the nice way to put it). I also told her that I was not going to protect her and keep her affair a secret anymore. I have seen subtle changes in her. Gonna see where we go from here. Once I gave myself that strength and told myself I will do what is best for me and the kids, I felt totally different towards her. No longer friends as long as she maintains this relationship. Like I no longer give a damn about her anymore. Again, I see subtle changes since then.