Reclaiming myself and my life #6

[faithisbelieving]

...and I could not have said it better frank. Listen to Bill. If you stand back and take a 'reality' look...either of us...how far away are our W's from being in ANY position to sustain a loving and trusting R/M? Months? Years? Whatever it takes, they CANNOT focus on a marriage right now. Bill is right...you can only step aside and let her horseless apple cart careen downhill. Maybe...maybe...one day, she'll want to put the pieces back together with you..but...you can't stay on hold waiting.

Wow, It certainly does make you wonder. If you chase anything in life it runs ... (law of the jungle) If you sit quite and still you are less threatening and more approachable.

I knew I read this somewhere before..from Deepak Chopra's Seven Spiritual Laws of Success:

6) The Law of Detachment
This law says that in order to acquire anything in the physical universe, you have to relinquish your attachment to it. This doesn't mean you give up the intention to create your desire. You give up your attachment to the result. This is a very powerful thing to do. The moment you relinquish your attachment to the result, combining one-pointed intention with detachment at the same time, you will have that which you desire. Anything you want can be acquired through detachment, because detachment is based on the unquestioning belief in the power of your true Self. Attachment comes from poverty consciousness, because attachment is always to symbols. Detachment is synonymous with wealth consciousness, because with detachment there is freedom to create. True wealth consciousness is the ability to have anything you want, anytime you want, and with least effort. To be grounded in this experience you have to be grounded in the wisdom of uncertainty. In this uncertainty you will find the freedom to create anything you want.