Leaving H alone sucks. I can do it, I just hate it....
You are right, Woog (and FG). I KNOW my H knows how much I love him. Some times that is almost part of the problem. He feels like SH!T because he has done these things to someone who DOES love him so much.
I would think his reasons to work on himself would include 1)himself 2)his kids 3)his wife 4)his family
I don't think it is my job to give him those reasons. Besides, even if he is messed up he is a very smart man. Very smart. So he already knows.
Nothing new to report. Just in a crabby mood today. I know this is up to H. I just don't understand the "fog" I guess. How can you look at your wife and kids who love you and want you, and NOT think that they are the "right" decision?
