That's good advice from Karen. I'd also advise getting out of the house as much as possible on the w/e. I know what it's like to live w/ someone who acts like you don't exist: it is soul crushing.
Re. calling a L: If it would make you feel better to know what WOULD/COULD happen should you D, that wouldn't be a bad idea. It might give you some peace of mind. But I would suggest holding off on filing for 48 hours. Whenever I wanted to make big decisions like that, that's what I did. When I finally did go through with it, after 1.5 years of S, I knew it was the right thing to do.
~Nicola
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