Minkerman: Neutral is the new Forward!

[minkerman]

I read half the book last night...it kept me up later than I would have liked, so I set my alarm for 6am instead of 5am. So what happens at 5:05am? W called! Well, I'm always happy to talk to her, so I didn't let on that I had been asleep.

She just wanted to bounce a couple things off me regarding her job, which is (just like our personal lives) a rollercoaster.

I told her she should be careful and not make too many waves, since it's a pretty high paying job, and she should have an exit strategy before doing anything dramatic.

She said "true, it's not like I can say MM I've lost my job, I need to come home".

I said "exactly...I just might question your motives for getting back together if that were the case".

We had a chuckle over that one.

Anyway, the book mentioned above. It's very good, so far. It really emphasizes GAL and having yourself on a solid base before even thinking of reconciling. The book says most couples reconcile too fast. That was certainly the case with us, back in October. Exactly what the book said would happen, did happen.

Anyway, I'll finish it tonight, it's an easy read. Go on Amazon and check it out, you can read the first chapter there.