However chances are this "friend" won't end his inappropriate behaviour unless W tells him "No" in a very firm manner, I'm not sure if she understands this.
This I think could be a cultural problem as she is Japanese and they are very polite, dont want to sound rude to people even if they dont like them!lol. So that is why I would like to step in, be a `protective wall` as it were (of course that is assuming she wants that). Also more than willing to do that with OM too. Think I can stay off the violence there too!lol. Before I wanted to kick his ass out of revenge, now I can see he is casung my W problems, and I just want to `save` her. Again... assuming she ever wanted that.
W called me again today, wanted to share some news she couldnt tell anyone else. That was nice.
I think we are slowly getting closer to an agreement to go abck to Japan. W was saying that she really missed Japan last night.
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.
