I don't know much about OM - beside what D4 told me - "He works with mommy and has no kids and he has a nice big dog", my wife is thinking to have a "new life" with this guy, so I would guess he is single.
What are the other ways to put pressure on this guy? I would have thought two small kids were enough, but it doesn't look like.
If they work together, I'm sure the HR dept at their work would be interested. Don't know what kind of work they do. You said your wife makes good $$. Is she a boss of any kind? Is this guy her boss or is your wife his boss? Most companies frown on this kind of thing. Sets them up for all kinds of lawsuits.
It's pretty drastic, but you could send a letter to her work stating what is going on and leave them to do their own "investigation". If you do send a letter to work, send it certified to HR and someone else higher up at the company so one person can't brush it under the rug. If you do it, just state the facts of the relationship. Puppy Dog Tails can probably give you more advise on this as I think he did this in his sitch. I haven't gone there yet. What ever you do in this regard, don't do it in haste.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
