A few weeks ago my WAW got upset with me because I didn't want to babysit our son while she went out with another man.
She's been pushing for a divorce. She told me that she was going to change her last name, that I was going to here from her lawyer and that it was over. Since then she has avoided me and we only talk when our son is involved.
On Saturday she said she wanted to be friends and didn't want to have a court fight.
I don't understand why she wants me to agree to a divorce instead of her filing for one if she really wants it.
The other question I have is am I right for not wanting a divorce and not accepting her position? Am I being selfish? I know that I want to stay married and keep our family together. (She tells me she doesnt have feelings for me).
