Quote: Oh, I need to ask: does anyone know how to NOT db for a month? Our MC seems to think I need to give the relationship work a rest and just be. I don't know if I can...
don't look at it as NOT dbing...simply look at it as giving yourself a mini vacation from thinking about everything..analyzing everything...and putting every action...word...statement etc...through that wringer of "is this going to get me closer to my goals" etc...
and for a while just "act as if" everything with your m is just fine and dandy.
Quote: I don't know if I can...
course ya can!! you can do anything you put your mind to!! and when you "can't" you just come right here and vent it out and we'll give ya a whack back into shape!!
