Maybe this is a crazy idea, but go dim with her. You don't need to try to fill any voids of dead air. Just go about your home as if everything is good with you. If she iniates contact, then sure talk to her. Don't drag it out, just answer the question at hand. Let her do the work. Women are great talkers afterall. When I was upset with my H yesterday about my car, money etc., he was trying to give all sorts of solutions. All I really needed/wanted him to say is "I know you are under alot of stress right now. Take a deep breath and everything is going to be ok. Maybe I can help you take care of x, will that help?" Get the idea? Hang in there. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
