Hope4us' Struggle, part 2

[Hope4us]

That's the hard one DMB. I just know when I exposed WW's STD that she was in a really pissy mood for a number of weeks and all the sudden she was really up beat. And she started wearing her "affair" undies again, which sent up the red flag with me. That's when I found their planned (or hoped for) meet up. That's when I exposed to the kids.

I guess I feel that if there is truly NC, that her moods will swing greatly (from what I've heard/read). She will slowly begin to come out of it. But her going from pissy one day to very nice/up beat the next three days, and with the other indicators, it just added up.

So, what does that do for us? That's the million $$ question. How do you know if her good mood is because of contact or she's coming out of it? I'm sure you've noticed some things that your wife did/does when she's been in contact. Watch for those. That's what I'm doing. ACTIONS, not WORDS.