So, how do you know when WW's good mood REALLY is a good mood b/c of you or your R? I have no idea. I guess you will KNOW when the time is right. But I am with you H4U, whenever my WW is hissy and snake toungued, I like it.

I am doing a better job (most days) at laughing my a$s off at her (on the inside only, not externally) because of the sheer pathetic nature of her addiction. Sometimes you just gotta laugh at these waywards.

Plus, if she REALLY didn't want to be there, if she REALLY wanted a divorce, if she REALLY wanted to run off the OM, if she REALLY knew what she was doing was RIGHT, she would have left by now, right?

Seems like waywards lack what must of us have found... courage..

You are doing great H4U.