Thanks Sandi2, I am in the process of re reading TDR and DB for inspriration, every little bit helps.
My long time friend is going to contact my W and try to get her to talk or at least listen to what he has to say. He is also going to have his wife and a good friend of theirs try and talk to my W about the very good possibilty that the M is salvagable, boy that is an ugly term. I don't know that she will talk to them, but is she will listen to my friend for even 5 mins. I really think he can get through to her. This guy can sell snow to eskimos. She will probably get pissed about him calling but at this point anything is worth trying. Maybe someone saying something positive can help clear her head of the BS she has been hearing for the last month.
Last night I wrote her a 7 page letter, and earlier in the afternoon a 4 pager, suprisingly she read both. She has not said anything about either letter, but no news can be good news.
She has been home the last 2 nights, thankfully. Her being at home when I am at work makes my concentration so much easier, and considering my career (Police officer) I need every bit I can muster. Working overnights and around the OW 2 nights a week is frustrating for my W so I am trying to get a transfer to another precinct or shift, just somewhere away from the OW.
Even though she has been home the last 2 nights it was not unexpected, you see the OW is off and this makes the OM off limits to my W. I have pointed this fact out to her several times, and I know she is aware of it, but she still continues on. Revenge I guess, and I hope.
I can't even begin to say how theraputic this is just verbally cleansing like this, thanks.
