Interesting babysteps. Always good to keepa record to look back on.
What happens if she gets into bed first? Do you normally get in and keep your distance?
I wonder if the fact that you have filed has taken away some of the 'pressure' I only mention that as that is what has happened to me.
Interesting developments - keep us posted
NC
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.