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Okay It has been A while since I have posted so I thought that I would bring it upto date.

My W's interview didn't go quite as planned it was not what she expected and not what they told her on the phone. So she instead applied at another place and ended up getting hired at min wage.

She is still trying to be involved with the children as much as possible, by asking them to email her and such. Sh seems to be avioding any type of contact with me other than information passed about the children and finances.

She did however tell me that she recieved her first check and that it was not quite what she was expecting..(31 hours.....193 after taxes)said that she was still waiting to see if she would get the better job on the military base, but might look into applying at a hospital for some kinda of in house training.

I think that maybe some of her realities are setting in and that she is trying to redevelope her plan.

I on the other hand have come to get a handle on my house and the way that I interact with my children. I am loving every minute of it. I have become close with my children and this is something that I have not done in the past...I guess you could say that this is a 180 for me.

Lets see I recieved a list of the bases that I could go to next from here and asked my W her opinion. she told me that it was not for her to decide and she would leave that for the kids and I. This bothered me abit because a statement like that kind of tells me that she has not been thinking of maybe a co parent arrangement, or for that matter where we could be located in relation to her for visitation of the children.

Other than that I am still working on me and GAL, enjoying my children and waiting.