Oh I feel for you. So many times, I have been there. Its dark, lonely and downright miserable. The one benefit of you two living in separate houses is peace from that.
It is miserable, lbw. Living in separate houses would alleviate it, but it is discouraged by my C right now.
My tactic right now, I suppose, is to up my GALing, 180ing or even going dark, if my talk with the OM does not yield results.
