I have decided not to go ahead with the coucelling. W is after no pressure, and things are progressing smoothly as they are anyway. I get the feeling that OM is pressuring her. She didnt say directly, but just the odd little thing she says. Tables are turned now! I gave W a massage last night. The `friend` guy text her. I got quite cold with her. She told me not to worry as there is absolutely nothing that she finds attractive about him. I told her I trust her, but not him. I asked how often he text, she said at least 3 times a day. I taught my W the word `inappropriate` (if you rememebr English is her 2nd Language). She said that he was being inappropriate and made her a bit uncomfortable. She said that she is just trying to be low key about it and hopes that it will die out from him. I offered my services to `have a word`... I promised not to be mean or to go in swinging, but I would be firm and make sur ehe understands. She seemed to mull this over a bit, and thanked me.
After this I got up and went to go back to my bedroom, but she started crying abit. Apologizing again. I asked if she wanted me to lie with her for a few minutes before I went to bed, so she said yes please. I was getting into the bed when she said I needed to turn off my bedroom light. I asked if that meant she wanted me to spend the whole night... she said she didnt know. Anyway I spent the whole night. We woke up about 2am, and the baby was kicking so I had a good feel of that. We fell asleep holding hands.
Moving forward.
Cheers
Steve
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.
