I haven't read that book. at least the title sound like something i will be interested in.
i also know that my previous actions didn't hlep the situation any. i guess as the victum in the A a part of me feels like if i did this differently or that differently would anything change. W has told me that it was all her as well as myu C today said she was the one who had the low esteam she did this to herself not in a revenge for the pornagraphy. if it was revenge she would have told me the next day as a dig to me. she chose to punish herself for 9 years.
however this still doesn't lessen the pain. man this sucks!
