If you were guaranteed complete custody of the children, would you divorce your spouse?
Wow, probably.
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Assuming you have grounds for divorce (adultery), why aren't you divorcing you spouse?
I am trying to do it calmly without a war.
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What changes must your formerly adulterous spouse make for you to want to stay in the marriage?
I don't even think about these anymore, because the chance is not even there. But...IC, MC, complete change in his lifestyle. That is HIS work, don't worry I would have work too, but luckily DB is helping me with that already...
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Have you been so hell-bent on keeping the marriage together and concerned over the welfare of the children that you haven't stopped to think, "What do I want?"
Yes, I am afraid I have NO clue what I want right now.
Your final question, theo, terrifies me, because I am in such a phase right now of protecting my children. I think....gulp....if H would remain faithful and my trust could come back...I just might stay for a somewhat fulfilling marriage.
