"It's because waywards "compartmentalize." Their affair, which usually goes against the grain of their base system of morality (well, HOPEFULLY it does, anyway, otherwise we married the wrong person!)"
Sorry not really sure how to do the quote thing yet! Just wanted to add here since all of you are talking about W's My H must be their brother! The funny thing to me is the extravagant gifts he bought me for Christmas and the card was "I'm know I'm not perfect (in many detailed ways) but you are the best thing that ever happened to me." Blah blah blah. And then he says after the Bomb and OW are revealed hasn't loved me for at least 10 years!!!!!!!! The other point I'm trying to make is the EGO! I have never seen the kind of egos in that family. They really think they are above and beyond anyone or anything. So they are always right and superior. It was great when I was someone who was loved but the minute the attention is over they have no qualms justifying their behavior. SO maybe I did marry the wrong one!
Me 46/H 48 M 19/T 20 S 16 D 9 Bomb 2/9/08 OW 2/29/08 Ended A 3/12/08 (LIAR)
