Good advice. It was very hard to get my own account and direct deposite changed but I am really glad I did. She has her own card and I have mine. What she did was really not that bad. We just funded her SEPT IRA but the was she did it was sneaky at best.
She is lieing like crazy about everything. Even simple things that would have the same effect if she told the truth. It's like a game. I almost can not stand being around her.
My old wife is gone and I don't think she is coming back.